Friday, August 1, 2025

Siberian Education - by Nicolai Lilin - Review by Maria Teresa De Donato

 

Siberian Education by Nicolai Lilin

 Review by Maria Teresa De Donato

 



Violent, ruthless, at times obscene, and even traumatizing, this Memoir by Nicolai Lilin is undoubtedly not for everyone. Yet, despite the crudeness of the stories, the narrative is fluent, pleasant, profound, full of meaning and life lessons, and, paradoxically, in some respects, equally fascinating.

Those who maintain a dualistic view and divide the World and, consequently, the Whole into beautiful or ugly, good or bad, right or wrong will have to review their position or at least discover that Reality may not necessarily be black or white, but also gray or even full of colors and shades.

These elements can be accepted or not accepted. Still, they deserve to be analyzed, even if we cannot fully understand them, because they may not be part of our experience, belief system, or evaluation standards.

The theme of Crime is extensively described, and its roots, as well as how it is conceived and experienced by the various clans, are masterfully examined and explained. Criminal organizations have always existed and, perhaps unfortunately, will always exist. However, their matrices, the foundations on which they rest, and the behavioral methods of their members are not the same but distinct, unique, and specific depending on the group.

This is the case of the Siberian Education that is received, an education that, although in this book is still linked to Crime, is characterized by a rigorous ethical and moral code that distinguishes it from all other organizations: simplicity and humility in conduct, deep respect for one's cultural identity, for one's religious beliefs, for (criminal) Authority, for the elderly, parents, women, children and their consequent protection and care of the entire community. This last aspect includes taking care of the families of members who are killed by other clans, sentenced to death or life imprisonment, or, in any case, to detention.

The ritual of tattoos, each hiding a specific content, is an aspect that I found particularly fascinating. It is a true ode to the identity and cultural and spiritual wealth of a people, the Siberian one, to be precise, fully aware and decidedly proud of their history, their habits, customs, and their ancient traditions.

The book's unexpected and, at times, even humorous ending will leave the reader with the sensation of the profound change taking place in the Author's life and of an awareness that will push him, subsequently, to opt for a U-turn in his existence while respecting and safeguarding that heritage, no longer 'criminal' but rather cultural, spiritual, ethical, and moral, that was passed down to him.