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Sunday, December 18, 2022
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(San Pietroburgo, 12 novembre 1833 – 27 febbraio 1887)
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Monday, December 12, 2022
Autism from a Different Perspective - by Giovanni Tommasini and Maria Teresa De Donato - The WWWITALIA review
Autism from a Different Perspective
by
Giovanni Tommasini and Maria Teresa De Donato
The
WWWITALIA review
Autism from a different perspective. Far from a manual on neurodevelopmental disorders linked to autism spectrum disorders, nothing technical in the book that Giovanni Tommasini and Maria Teresa De Donato pay tribute to the success of Cesare, which subtitles the publication. Instead, it is the narration of an encounter between the inexperienced educator and a beautiful child prisoner of a cage that relegates him to the sidelines, written on the tip of the heart. In the search for the door to enter the world of Caesar, John will put himself, his world, and his history into play, finding himself making a journey in his own experience and in the value of what surrounds him. The declared unpreparedness of the educator, who will later make his profession and his life from this experience, will prove to be a winning weapon in the relationship that will be established between man and child. At the same time, sensitivity and respect for Caesar's uniqueness will be the key that the child will use to gain some freedom and a certain autonomy concerning the other, coding a language to get in touch with the outside world. A fight for freedom that the two protagonists of this beautiful story fight together, discovering friendship, respect, and love.
The stitching is delivered to the story
by the skillful pen of Maria Teresa De Donato, with which the writer analyzes
and underlines the salient passages of the narration, allowing valuable
reflections to the reader.
I found the story steeped in the
humanity of simple waiting, deafening silence, and respect for the other's
times. I highly recommend reading it to address autism from a decidedly
different perspective.
Eleonora Davide, Journalist, Director
L’AUTISMO visto da una PROSPETTIVA DIVERSA - di Giovanni Tommasini e Maria Teresa De Donato - La recensione di WWWITALIA
L’AUTISMO visto da una PROSPETTIVA DIVERSA
di
Giovanni Tommasini e Maria Teresa De Donato
La
recensione di WWWITALIA
L’autismo visto da una prospettiva diversa. Tutt’altro che un manuale sul disturbo del neuro sviluppo collegato ai disturbi dello spettro autistico, niente di tecnico nel libro che Giovanni Tommasini e Maria Teresa De Donato tributano al Successo di Cesare, che sottotitola la pubblicazione. Piuttosto si tratta della narrazione di un incontro, tra l’inesperto educatore e un bambino bellissimo prigioniero di una gabbia che lo relega in disparte, scritta in punta di cuore. Nella ricerca della porta per entrare nel mondo di Cesare, Giovanni metterà in gioco se stesso, il suo mondo e la sua storia, ritrovandosi a compiere un cammino nel proprio vissuto e nel valore di ciò che lo circonda. La dichiarata impreparazione dell’educatore, che poi di questa esperienza farà la sua professione e la sua vita, si rivelerà un’arma vincente nel rapporto che andrà a instaurarsi tra l’uomo e il bambino. Così come la sensibilità e il rispetto dell’unicità di Cesare saranno la chiave che il bambino userà per conquistare un po’ di libertà e una certa autonomia nelle relazioni con l’altro, codificando un linguaggio per entrare in contatto con l’esterno. Una lotta per la libertà quella che i due protagonisti di questa bella storia combattono insieme, scoprendo l’amicizia, il rispetto e l’amore.
Puntuali le impuntature consegnate
al racconto dalla sapiente penna di Maria Teresa De Donato, con le quali la
scrittrice analizza e sottolinea i passaggi salienti della narrazione,
consentendo utili riflessioni al lettore.
Ho trovato il
racconto intriso di una umanità fatta di semplice attesa, assordante silenzio,
rispetto dei tempi dell’altro. Ne consiglio caldamente la lettura per
affrontare il discorso dell’autismo da una prospettiva decisamente diversa.
Eleonora Davide, Giornalista, Direttore Editoriale
AUTISMUS aus einer anderen Perspektive gesehen - von Giovanni Tommasini und Maria Teresa De Donato - Die WWWITALIA-Rezension
AUTISMUS aus einer anderen Perspektive gesehen
von Giovanni Tommasini und Maria Teresa De Donato
Die WWWITALIA-Rezension
Autismus aus einer anderen Perspektive gesehen. Weit entfernt von
einem Handbuch über neurologische Entwicklungsstörungen im Zusammenhang mit
Autismus-Spektrum-Störungen, nichts Technisches in dem Buch, das Giovanni
Tommasini und Maria Teresa De Donato dem Erfolg von Cesare würdigen, das die
Veröffentlichung untertitelt. Vielmehr ist es die Erzählung einer
Begegnung zwischen dem unerfahrenen Erzieher und einem schönen Kindergefangenen
eines Käfigs, der ihn ins Abseits drängt, ins Herz geschrieben. Auf
der Suche nach der Tür, um in die Welt von Cesare einzutreten, wird Giovanni
sich selbst, seine Welt und seine Geschichte aufs Spiel setzen und dabei
feststellen, dass er eine Reise in seine eigene Erfahrung und in den Wert
dessen macht, was ihn umgibt. Die erklärte Unvorbereitetheit des Erziehers, der
später aus dieser Erfahrung seinen Beruf und sein Leben machen wird, wird sich
als eine siegreiche Waffe in der Beziehung erweisen, die zwischen Mann und Kind
hergestellt wird. So wie die Sensibilität und der Respekt für Cesares
Einzigartigkeit der Schlüssel sein werden, den das Kind benutzen wird, um eine
gewisse Freiheit und eine gewisse Autonomie in den Beziehungen zu anderen zu
erlangen, indem es eine Sprache kodiert, um mit der Außenwelt in Kontakt zu
treten. Ein Kampf um die Freiheit, den die beiden Protagonisten dieser
wunderschönen Geschichte gemeinsam bestreiten und dabei Freundschaft, Respekt
und Liebe entdecken.
Die Naht, die das geschickte Stift von Maria
Teresa De Donato an die Geschichte geliefert wurde, mit der die Autorin die
herausragenden Passagen der Erzählung analysiert und unterstreicht und dem
Leser nützliche Reflexionen ermöglicht.
Ich fand die Geschichte durchdrungen von
einer Menschlichkeit, die aus einfachem Warten, ohrenbetäubender Stille und
Respekt vor der Zeit des anderen besteht. Ich empfehle dringend, es zu lesen,
um Autismus aus einer entschieden anderen Perspektive zu behandeln.
Eleonora Davide,
Journalistin, Direktorin
Friday, December 9, 2022
They Call Me Cancer - A Story of Rebirth with Serena Derea Squanquerillo - Interview by Maria Teresa De Donato
They Call Me Cancer - A story of rebirth
with
Serena Derea Squanquerillo
Interview
by Maria Teresa De Donato
Dear friends,
Today I am pleased to
host my friend and colleague, author and blogger Serena Derea Squanquerillo,
whom we will be able to meet and get to know better on other occasions. I only
anticipate that, in terms of strength of character, determination, and desire
to help others, Serena has a lot to teach. There are so many things I could
tell you about her, but, as usual, I prefer my guest to do it.
MTDD: Hi, Serena, and welcome to my Blog and Virtual Cultural Lounge.
SDS: Hi
Maria Teresa, thank you for inviting me to this beautiful sharing. I'm very
excited. Greetings to all readers and readers!
MTDD: Serena,
why don't you start by introducing yourself, telling us a little about
yourself, your studies, your activities, and everything you want to share with
our readers?
SDS:
Certainly. I was born in 1980 in Velletri, in the southern province of Rome,
where I still live. I graduated from the classical high school in my city in
1999, but then, I followed more technical training in computer science and
graphics for some of my needs. I started working in this field at 24, although
I also worked as a secretary and in customer service for a well-known American
company. For a few years, I worked as a self-employed person in a company that
deals with communication and services, created together with some friends. In
2016 I left my job following essential changes in my life, such as my father's
death and the need to process the legacy left by the first breast cancer I
had. Unfortunately, he came back last year, but I got over that too. I am a
person who periodically monitors, and I do not hesitate to ask for help.
Following these events, I needed to care for myself and
understand what had happened. I started a spiritual path to get to know myself
better, parallel with a healing direction of bereavement assistance I followed
two years ago, not only for my father's death but also for the loss of parts of
me, which occurred over time. Over the years, I have had health problems
several times. During this personal research or relatively continuous
rediscovery, I found my talents and new possibilities of living which today I
am reaping sweet fruits. I have several satisfactions both for the activities
alone and in collaboration.
MTDD: Life
is an extraordinary thing, full of surprises, sometimes beautiful, sometimes
beautiful, sometimes ugly, and even terrible. It is useless to understand the
reason because it likely does not exist or escapes us. With some
people, it seems to be more forgiving, and with others, tougher. This, at
least, could be our perception.
In one of your writings, I read:
"I
arrived on January 14, 2012, and learned it was his 32nd birthday. I saw her
blowing the candle on her favorite cake: a cream and chocolate millefeuille ...
As if it were a gift, I chose to postpone my official presentation for a few
days ..."
To this day, most people are often afraid to pronounce this word
- Cancer - almost as if they want to exorcise even a remote possibility ...
Knowing you and having discussed with you about health on other
occasions, I feel free to talk with you about this matter, aware of your
availability and, above all, of how and to what extent you are busy helping and
encouraging people who deal with this disease.
Would you like to tell us about your experience and how you
lived it all?
SDS:
Yes. I make a premise. As I said, I had many health problems: depression, panic
attacks, eating disorders - fortunately not serious - endometriosis problems
until I came to experience cancer. Before, I never spoke openly about my
situation because I did not feel the need and wanted to keep it private.
Something inside of me, however, changed. When the Cancer "showed
up," I reviewed in front of me everything that had happened to me up to
then. Fortunately, I did not have a problematic tumor, neither the first nor
the second time.
On the contrary, the interventions and treatments that gave me
various problems were more invasive, but it is certainly never an easy and
light situation. It was a slaughter game facilitated by my severe lack of love
for myself. It's like life has taken me aside and given me an either-or. I made
myself strong and courageous to face this stranger. From that moment on, I
started sharing what I felt at first in ANDOS (National Association for Breast
Operated Women), where I received support and still belong as a volunteer
whenever I have the chance. Finally, I wrote this story which was published in a
collection for charity. Then it was distributed on two portals of Italian
doctors and psychologists as a testimony of life.
MTDD: As
a Naturopath and Homeopath, through my academic studies, but also and, above
all, through interviews and consultations, I have tried to understand better
and identify the potential dynamics that favor health and well-being and,
consequently, healing, and those that on the contrary, they appear to promote
symptoms and disease and, at times, hinder recovery.
I was, therefore, particularly struck by one of your statements
that I always found in your previously mentioned paper:
"Serena
is a girl who lives in a constant sense of inadequacy and fear of expressing
her feelings and her creativity. The fear is that of not being held up to par.
"
These are very profound, almost hurtful words.
Would you like to elaborate on these concepts?
SDS:
Until recently, I loved myself very little. I was insecure, introverted, and
busy, but I felt like I was living an inauthentic life. I felt like an alien.
Dropping out of university failed me because I saw my teenage projects blown
up. I couldn't study because I had to give up. I was struggling because
I had a "different" learning method - as I later understood. I felt
stupid.
Then, thanks to the support of my parents and a psychologist, I
chose other paths that gave me satisfaction but were not enough. I realize that
what I am about to say is difficult to hear; there was a period of depression
in which, when I thought about the future possibility of starting a family with
children, I told myself that the only thing that it could have grown in me it
would have been a tumor ... Obviously the causes of illnesses could be many.
Still, I am convinced of the importance of the quality of thoughts and words
with which we program ourselves. My sense of inadequacy has implanted in me the
fear of the judgment of others. I had the most ruthless judge in front of me
when I looked in the mirror.
MTDD: The
'positive' note is that, by your admission, although your "Personal love
[was] equal to zero ... despite the falls, insecurities, and fear, [you] always
got up with strength and courage."
Many people confronted with cancer have said that this
experience was the most powerful life lesson for them and helped them change
for the better.
Do you agree with this view, and if so, why?
SDS:
Yes! I can genuinely say that, paradoxically, that experience saved me from
destruction. I did not allow that situation to let me give up everything:
either I continued to fall into the abyss, or I went up and chose to live with
love and conscience. I have embraced the second option. I have chosen life.
MTDD:
Whatever your limitations have been in the past - by your admission - your
willpower, determination, and awareness of your worth make you
merit. To all this, a spiritual path has been added that you have taken to
better connect to the 'real Serena' and, probably, also go to compare, by
removing them, those aspects that were in your "shadow," to use the
language of Carl Jung, famous psychiatrist, and psychoanalyst.
Would you like to tell us about it?
SDS: The
self-knowledge path helped me become aware of my deep feelings. My shadow was
the beauty of what was yet to come, but it was being smothered. I faced the
demons who, until then, had feasted in the shadows, but when I paid attention
to them, I discovered that they had screamed to be heard. I found that behind
those obstacles were hidden treasures and parts of me that I needed to
integrate into the puzzle of my identity. Indeed I still have to work in this
sense, but thanks to the practical tools I have acquired on this spiritual
path, I have learned to harmonize and understand my actual needs. I came into
deep contact with the 'real Serena.'
MTDD: Due
to this path of the disease and the consequent awareness and rebirth, you felt
the need not only to share your experience but to do so in a way that supports
those who face cancer and disease in general and might feel completely lost and
even misunderstood.
Art, in any form, can be a means to be used for therapeutic
purposes.
This year, you conducted a program – Living Your Talents -
Stories of Personal Rebirth - with the Phoebus Association, of which you were the creator and host.
I'd love for you to tell me about it. It could be
advantageous to our reading and reading audience.
SDS: In
2019, I began to pour these life testimonies into a personal blog, up to - to
my surprise - the publication of three monographic books. I began to create
artistic collaborations always to leave a message of encouragement to take care
of oneself and to live one's talents first and foremost as a form of expression
for one's well-being.
In July, I received an interview from the Phoebus Cultural
Association, in which I talked about my experience of personal redemption
thanks to my talents. Hence, creating a space would allow others to do the same with the team. I find it essential to share my personal
story because it can be beneficial and help many. Besides, since it is a
real-life story, the message is recognized as authentic. Finally, friendships
and collaborations can also arise from these comparisons, as in our case, Maria
Teresa. Thanks to your participation in "Vivere I Talenti," we met
and started building this bridge of initiatives together. I am happy and
grateful.
MTDD: Thank
you, Serena, for participating in this interview and for being open and sharing
very personal and delicate aspects of your life, which is difficult for some
people to do.
I will be happy to host you again in the future to be able to
talk with you about other interesting topics. Therefore, I wish you all the
best with your health and the success you deserve in all your activities.
SDS: And
I will be glad to be there! Thank you for this opportunity, Maria Teresa. I
sincerely reciprocate the good wishes.
MTDD: Before
concluding, who wants to contact or follow you in your activities? How can they
do it?
SDS: They can follow me on my blog, https://www.dereasblog.cloud, where there is a link to the
Youtube channel and on the Facebook page "La Magica Danza Dei Talenti."
For those wishing to write to me, there is also the email derea.serena@gmail.com.
MTDD:
Thanks again for participating.
SDS: Thank
you. Thanks to the readers for paying attention to this part of my story. It can be of help and inspiration to someone. See you soon!

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